As one of the bitchier players--I guess the only thing I can offer here is what I've learned: there are going to be players who use tactics which you (or I, or whoever) are going to consider "cheap", or "noob".
That may be all they have, but it's in the game and it works. Calling them noobs is not cool. It's awesome if someone is a skilled player and can fight in a sportsmanlike manner--but dying like a sportsman is also important.
Nobody likes to have their victories pissed on--and it's really weak to dis someone who kills you after you've wasted them 20 times in a row just because they used a gun which requires less skill than the gun you are using.
I think a better policy, if you can't say something nice, is to just shut up. It's not like you aren't going to score another 20 kills on them following the "noob play". If the "cheap" tactic becomes incessant, log off and play later.
Personally I think Henry's an awesome player, and I really enjoy the challenge of fighting him, but even he does things I think are cheap--we all have our pet peeves. And we're all human, from time to time something's going to slip out--I'm no angel in that regard for sure.
That doesn't mean we can't make an effort to make the server fun for everyone
, as opposed to a place where everyone who plays in one certain way is cool, and everyone who plays differently is a cheap noob.